Both my boys have long hair. One of them prefers things society has deemed “girl stuff.” Dance class, mermaids, colors like turquoise and pink.
And our boys aren’t ones to sit back and take it in stride when someone tells them they’re wrong. And believe you me, sometimes I wish they would because sometimes — okay, often — they’re wrong. And they’re definitely guilty of their fair share of sins, but long hair and pink preferences are not among them.
It seems recently a little girl at school has been telling them, “Boys can’t have long hair and boys can’t like girl things. It’s a sin. It’s in the bible.”
You know where she’s getting that — and it ain’t from the bible. Seems to me the only “sinners” here are the parents and preachers in the pulpits, arming young children with sharp, hateful stones to cast.
The boys have handled it well. Parker simply points out that “Jesus has long hair.”
To which this girl retorts, “No, he doesn’t. Jesus is a rule follower. He would never have long hair.”
Hmmm. Rule follower, eh? That one is open for interpretation — as are all these notions, I guess. Still… pretty sure the ultra-conservative view of what is Christ-like and what’s not (and what’s in the Bible and what’s not) seems skewed to fit a very narrow definition. And last I heard, Christ’s Love does anything but.
And then there’s the matter of Tate and his “girl” preferences. What does that even mean? Who says dance class and mermaids are only acceptable for the females of society?
“I like what I like,” Tate defends.
“Good for you,” I say. It’s all just fun and games anyway… until somebody gets hurt.
Why should anybody get hurt? Toys should be toys. Not tools to separate and defame.
Do better, parents. Teach Jesus, not judgment.
December 18, 2021 at 9:50 am
Pure awesomeness! Love them boys and their personalities. Tell them Link always has their back. Y’all have 2 of the best kids I know. And tell them I’m extremely jealous of theor long hair😁
December 20, 2021 at 4:22 pm
We are so very blessed to have y’all in our lives. We appreciate the entire Crump family SO MUCH.
January 3, 2022 at 10:21 am
I wholeheartedly agree! We all like what we like. Toys should definitely not have a gender! I love your boys long hair!